The onset of the Covid lockdowns begins to change all of that. Priya and the other girls at her school have to start using their parents' phones to do their school work. Many other girls at school use their parents' phones or even have their own phones, but Priya’s parents have always been against her using their phones unless it’s absolutely necessary. Priya can’t believe her luck. She surfs the internet and watches educational and funny videos on YouTube and Instagram. She chats to other girls from other cities across the whole country! It feels like her world is opening up and she can imagine an entirely different future from the one her parents have planned for her.
Then Priya starts receiving messages, Instagram DMs, from the brother of a friend at school. At first the messages are innocuous, but when Priya ignores them they become increasingly insistent and explicit. Priya is horrified and embarrassed. She doesn’t dare tell anyone about it. Especially not her parents. She just stops using the phone entirely. She even stops talking to friends at school. The world feels like a hostile place with danger around every corner.
Later that month, Sneha is back at school. This time she introduces the girls to a platform they can use to learn more about digital skills, GBV and their rights — a place they can get information, share stories, get help and report GBV too. At the end of the day, Sneha and an older boy give a presentation to the whole school. The older boy talks about the responsibility that each person has to understand, identify and report tech-facilitated GBV. They play a clip with a message from Priya’s favourite Bollywood actor. She can see the boys are listening too. Sneha and the older boy lead the whole school in a series of games and role-playing activities.
Feeling confident, Priya starts using her parents' phone again. Talking to her parents about the things she’s learning. Her world starts to open up again. And then she gets another lewd message. This time, however, Priya is not scared or embarrassed, but outraged. She knows exactly what to do. She takes screengrabs, blocks the user and reports the account. She logs onto the platform Sneha told her about and shares her story with other girls. Everyone rushes to support her and encourage her. Priya even talks to a counsellor online about her earlier experiences and she feels she can finally let go of the fear. She’s wary, but feels wise. She’s in control.